Help Ebony have a child

My name is I’ve always been told be successful, work hard, stay focused. And that’s what I did. I’m currently serving in the navy and have been for 22 years. I’m a aunt and good mom to many children ( some you can see in the picture). For the past decade I’ve had 5 surgeries to preserve my uterus because of fibroids abd done multiple fibroid treatments. I’ve been on this IVF journey for a long time and now I need help. I don’t know he long I can keep paying for this because it’s not covered by the military. I thought I was doing everything right but I never thought that I would work my self out of being a mom.