My name is Kian Adams my dream is to become a father. I wanna start saving now for around 2027-28 to either adopt, or get a surrogate using a sperm donor and then insemination. I have even had friends offer to be my surrogate for a child down the road but I have no idea how I would come close to affording this without asking for help. I work full time and have a few side hustles. Although, that alone just isn’t gonna cut it for how much I’m gonna be needing. My first plan is affording a sperm donor, and then at home insemination with consent of a close friend. If that ends up not working I would then need to go through the medical process of getting a doctor to inseminate sperm into my surrogate. This is gonna cost me thousands and although I’m determined, who knows how long it would take me to save for that. I feel like my biggest role in life besides learning myself is to become a parent. EVERY PENNY COUNTS.