Hi my name is Janet, my husband Josh and I have been married for about 10 years. Previously we both came from very controlling abusive marriages where we did have children. I have 5 he has 3. All are almost grown only one left under 18! When we first met, given we had 8 kids my husband underwent a vasectomy. Now that we are more set in life, found god and more financially ready we would like to have a baby together. We have researched vasectomy reversals and they are very expensive but we would like to try to have a biological child first before going into adoption (which we will be doing if we don’t get pregnant in the first year) please help us make this dream come true!