Hi,My name is Risper 44 years old. I got married 20 years ago with one daughter but I have not had a child with my husband. This is and has been a great challenge since he gets so desperate to have his own,has low moments of self pitty, other times shifting blame to me that maybe the challenge is with me. The pressure from relatives and the community to give them a child trickles to me very oftenly with majority advising him to get another younger wife who can bear him children. As times quickly flies,and chances getting slim,the pressure is much and I fear losing him and my marriage too. I have no doubt IVF will work for us. However it's too expensive and am the only one working,doing all the bills and maintaining my family. Him and the daughter are H4 visa holders and therefore can't work. Kindly help me salvage my marriage as I also enjoy holding a baby born out of love in my hands. Thank you in advance