Hi, My name is Lauren and my husband is Pete, we have been married 3 years, waited till we were married to start have g children, we are 40 and 42 now, the process is harder in both of us. We started trying then pete father found out he had cancer and passed away, we started trying again and found out my mom was sick with a rare cancer and lost her last year . Now we are really trying,, there is nothing more we both would love to have a child. Waiting all these years to finally find the right man to spend your life with and doing everything right to find out at 40 that it's harder to become pregant. I would love to be a mom and Peter a father iui has not worked for us. He we are on this journey for ivf.