My husband and I are wracking our brains as to how to go forward with IFV and still be able to put our kids through college one day. I know there are grants and loans out there but someone suggested doing a fundraiser at a little bowling alley that my hubby are on a league at. My question is: Is this tacky? It's not like we're dying or have cancer or anything...we just want to start our family!! We've already spent so much money on all of our treatments and the big stuff hasn't even started. Opinions?? Thanks! Please help us