We are the Jolley's. My husband, Chris and I have been struggling with secondary infertility for the last few years. Secondary infertility is defined as the inability to conceive or carry a baby to term after previously giving birth. Even though we have already had a child, secondary infertility is still very painful. Especially when our 6 year old son, Champ, wants nothing more than a sibling of his own. Weekly he is asking me questions and telling me things like- "Mom when are we getting our baby?" "I have baby names!" "I made a wish on the wish flower to have a baby." This little boy deserves a sibling.