My name is Marcos Heredia, living in North New Jersey. I met my future wife Cindy Villacis 10 years ago and we dated for 2 years and finally married 8 years ago. We both work hard and both take care of our elderly parents. My wife and I have been trying to conceive for 8 years now. Naturally for the first 3 years with no success. We have tried a few IUI's (maybe 20 already) with just chemical pregnancies. We have tried IVF 3 times already and 2 failed and 1 embryo only lasted about 5 weeks and then passed away. ? We are paying out of pocket and digging ourselves a bit of a hole with debt and would really love some help as we are both getting older in age, 41 each. We want to try 1 or 2 more IVF's before finally settling for Donor Egg or Sperm or both. We really are trying to conceive with our eggs and sperm but are really climbing uphill. We both have been battling bits of depression, marital arguments and possibly ruining our relationship with trying to conceive our first baby. We pray to God and try our best to live a good kind and morally good life. We really could use some help and would be eternally grateful. We have been patients of CNY for help as well as 2 or 3 other Infertily centers trying to find answers. Please help us all you can and thank you and God Bless You all.