At 21 I went in for a tubal ligation.This was not what I wanted to do but, I was convinced by people in my family that this was what would be best. Physically I recovered without any issues. Unfortunately emotionally  my heart and soul did not recover. I regretted it before I did it and I regretted it even more after the procedure was completed.  Now, here I am 13 yeas later and i would Love nothing more for me and my wonderful man to share the same dream of having a big family and we just need some help achieving our dream. There are people who just know that they were born to be a doctor, teacher, etc. me; I know I was born to be a mother. We want to bring a person/s in to this world that is a part of both of us and just need a little help in doing so.